Hwa Rang Do is a Microcosm of Life – Intro

November 12th, 2008

Introduction

Several years ago I wrote an article for the Kwan Chang Chronicles on How Children Become Adults (http://www.hwarangdo.net/news/2004/Nov/1104Kids.php). It began:

Children today are at great risk. While society frequently pays lip service to putting kids first, the reality is that we are raising generations of dysfunctional young adults. We cater to children,give them too much freedom, not enough boundaries,and rush them into a false sense of maturity. Many parents are too busy working to notice that they are not spending much time providing guidance. We have all probably heard the sad statistic that mothers only spend about 10 minutes a day talking to their kids; and for fathers it is even less.

I went on to point out that with limited parenting time, children are severely lacking discipline and guidance. Society unfortunately, does more harm than good by extolling glitz and glamour over substance. Sadly there are few places that actually do teach these important, life affirming values — and I’ve seen none better than Hwa Rang Do.

For the sake of brevity, I ended that article with a quick list of things that I’ve learned through Hwa Rang Do:

Those who put in more effort are rewarded accordingly. What is most important about a martial art is not learning kicking and punching. What you learn about yourself passed through the ethics and philosophy of the martial art is what combines to make you a better human being. It is interesting that, paradoxically, while learning self-defense techniques intended to injure another person (if necessary) students actually develop a greater concern for the welfare of others. By developing the inner strength to do what is right you learn to stand up for those in need. You also learn: that hard work pays off; that there are consequences to your actions; that discipline is something you should seek not avoid; to be loyal to those around you; to be the best student, teacher, brother, sister, parent, child or friend you can be; to look up to and respect teachers, parents, mentors and big brothers/sisters; to care for little brothers/sisters, children and those weaker than you; to be strong and decisive; to know right from wrong and have the courage to do what’s right even if it’s hard; and to recognize the fragility of life and learn to cherish and protect it. To me, this is what it means to be a mature adult and these are the lessons that I have learned through Hwa Rang Do.

It’s this list that I’d like to revisit in more detail now that space isn’t a constraint.

Role Models

Sadly, I feel that the US has been coasting off-course for several decades in a number of key areas. Perhaps the most important of these is in how we raise future generations to care for each other, the country, the rest of humanity and all of mother nature. It’s not my goal to delve into too much politics but it seems clear to me that many of our current problems stem whole or in part from this — from our economic meltdown, to the deniers of Global Warming, to the various wars fought in our name (in Iraq, on terror, on drugs, etc). This is a worldwide problem but as the only superpower (soon joined by China) we bear more than our share of the responsibility. Of course, there are many complex root causes to these issues. Nonetheless, I strongly feel that we all need to refocus on what’s truly important, take responsibility for fixing these problems, and regain some of our humanity — before it’s too late.

Today we are truly lacking in role models: heroes, mentors, true champions – not so much because they don’t exist but because we as a society don’t celebrate them. Sure, we’ll make a big deal about sports heroes like Olympic gymnast Keri Strug who made a personal sacrifice for her team to win the gold in the 1996 Olympic Games. But I doubt that many Americans would have noticed if she had been competing for another country. Would it even have aired had it occurred in a less popular sport? A shining example of selflessness such as this should surpass such common issues as popularity or the desire to win. We should still be hearing of her today. So why don’t we?

More importantly, what about those pushing forward other boundaries of human knowledge — academics, scientists, artists, inventors. What about those doing social good like teachers, firefighters, policemen, doctors? What is it about humanity that draws more attention to lowbrow tabloid “news” instead of the recent launch of the Large Hadron Collider at CERN? More people seem to know the names of Brangelina’s babies than recent Nobel laureates. It’s maddening that we do so little to celebrate those who are literally advancing the limits of human knowledge.

After I had written the above, Master Lee coincidentally sent me a New York Times article making the very same point:

A big part of the problem, Dr. Mertz and others say, is that while the young math Olympians are wooed by elite colleges like Harvard and M.I.T., as well as the country’s leading hedge fund firms, they are mostly invisible to the public. “There is something about the culture in American society today which doesn’t really seem to encourage men or women in mathematics,” said Michael Sipser, the head of M.I.T.’s math department. “Sports achievement gets lots of coverage in the media. Academic achievement gets almost none.”

(more info at http://www.nytimes.com/2008/10/14/opinion/14herbert.html)

It’s not just academic achievement that’s being overlooked but nearly every area of substance. Sure, we know of Mother Theresa, Gandhi, etc. Most of know that Bill Gates and Warren Buffet are giving millions to the needy or that Paul Newman quietly donated over $200M to poor kids around the world. These are incredible examples of how we all should act. But what about the school teachers in poor neighborhoods or those who donate an organ to a stranger or just donate their time and efforts to help the needy? Society should be focused upon elevating our sensibilities, continually reminding ourselves what is good and challenging us to do better.

Unfortunately, from the likes of popular TV shows like Cops or Jerry Springer, it seems that more people prefer to focus on the worst in humanity. This has the added undesirable effect of giving us all excuses for being mediocre because “at least I’m not as bad as those people.” This is probably why these shows are so popular — by focusing on the bottom of the barrel, they make even those below average complacent in their underachievement.

This to me speaks to the heart of what we as a society stand for. We should celebrate those who quietly do the right thing, especially in the face of adversity; those who give without expecting anything in return; those who elevate the human condition. In Hwa Rang Do we do this every day. We may not make a big deal out of such actions, in part because they are expected of every student; but we recognize the behavior on a regular basis and applaud those who embody these traits. In a general sense, everything we do revolves around this principle.

To be continued…

Part 2 of this Sam Dan Essay, will explore further the benefits of Traditional Martial Arts training

External VS. Internal Motivation

August 25th, 2008

I’ve always been the organized sports kind of person. From wrestling to soccer, I always thrived in an environment with a coach barking at me and a team that I couldn’t let down. At the time, I thought I was disciplined. I mean, running 7 minute miles without breaking a sweat is disciplined, right?

But if I really think about it, my drive was never really internalized. In school, I was always working just working for a grade in a class. In fact, my entire goal throughout college was to get the A with as least effort as possible.

Fast forward to my mid-twenties with no more coaches, teams, or grades, and I was a bit directionless. I even tried mens league soccer to return to the sense of comraderie among a team that I had in high school and college. But everyone playing in a mens league is a free agent. Always looking to trade up to a better team. Or, they have about 3 friends on the team and they’ll only pass to those guys. Or worst of all, they’re phoning it in, so they can tell girls in bars that they play soccer.

It got old, quickly. What was the point in making a 30 yard run to be wide open for a shot on goal if no one would pass it? Or what was the point of playing hard defense toe-to-toe with someone advancing the ball if your teammates were too lazy to cover the open pass. It all resulted in a lot of wasted effort. I got so sick and tired of it that I dreaded going to the games.

Around this time, I had two good friends that had started training in Tae Soo Do. I even met Master Lee at a graduation party for one of the guys. I talked to him for a while about what Hwa Rang Do was all about. As many cocktails as I had that night I clearly remember his answer, “It is whatever you want it to be.” Frankly I didn’t get it. But Master Lee was very charismatic, and made me curious.

A few months later, I attended a buddy week. Class was tough, but I held in there. At the end of it, my thought was, “This is awesome, where do I sign up.” I did that night, and I got my white belt in the next beginner class.

But my externally motivated attitude that had been common for my previous 25 years followed me. At first, I felt I had something to prove. I had to let the entire class and all the martial art instructors know that while I was new, I was no slouch. I was going to sweat it out with the best of them and work harder and faster than everyone. Then they’d know I was serious. I had to tell Master Lee through my actions that I was a student worthy of his tutelage.

After a while, all of the students that were ranked higher than me moved out of the beginner class. My thoughts shifted from proving myself to making sure I was a good example for the other beginners ranked lower than me.

But a thought was very, very slowly crystalizing in my head. Scattered fragments of what Master Lee had been saying over the previous months were slowly taking shape and rising to the surface like bubbles in a pot of water just beginning to boil.

“It [Hwa Rang Do] is whatever you want it to be.”
“You better not be getting your [Tae Soo Do] black belt for me. Do it for yourself.”
“Don’t be an exception, be exceptional.”
“Class is battle–would you show up for battle unprepared?”
“I know you can be 100 times better.”

Hwa Rang Do and Tae Soo Do are not about impressing Master Lee or the other instructors. It’s not about proving yourself to your fellow students. It’s about one thing and one thing only–YOU. Specifically, being the best version of “YOU” possible.

The simple fact of the matter is:

  • You CAN do your basics faster
  • You CAN do more knuckle pushups
  • You CAN always make your stances deeper
  • You CAN always make your kicks higher

It is ridiculous how many artificial limitations we place on ourselves. Hwa Rang Do and Tae Soo Do is just as much, if not more, about exercising and improving your mind as it is about exercising and improving your body.

I am finally beginning to internalize that I am capable of much more than I think I am. I don’t need a coach or a team to push me. My natural attitude is to push myself further than I think is possible.

- Joseph O’Day

That Which You Gain too Easily, You Esteem too Lightly

August 12th, 2008

It’s a phrase some of you have heard Master Lee say more than once. And if not, you just heard it here, so commit it to memory.Â
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Most of the senior students at the dojang know that I’m a contributing editor for Black Belt Magazine. The vast majority of the recent press featuring Hwa Rang Do or Master Lee in recent years has come from my keyboard. I also hold sifu ranking in three Chinese martial arts and a doctorate in Chinese medicine.Â
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Thanks to my job with Black Belt, and also thanks to other random good luck, I’ve had the rare opportunity to hang out with or study (privately in most cases) with the who’s who of martial arts from around the world. From spending days on the set with Jackie Chan and Zhang Ziyi, to watching Zulu stickfighting and Xhosa knife techniques in South Africa, I’ve been blessed to be able to see the best of martial arts around the world. In fact, I just returned from a training trip to Thailand, where I spent a week studying Thai swordfighting (krabi-krabong) in depth. So what does all that bragging mean for you if you’re training at the West Coast Hwa Rang Do Academy? Simple. I train there, too . . . starting from a beginner’s shiny new white sash.Â
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And why do I train at the WCHRDA? Is it because I happen to know Master Lee from the days when we both used to teach martial arts at UCLA? or because it’s close to my apartment? or because the uniforms are too stylish and cool looking to train anywhere else? It’s because I’ve had the chance to see and train with the world’s absolute BEST martial artists, and I count Chiefmaster Taejoon Lee among them. I said THE WORLD’S, not LA’s best, not California’s best, and not America’s best. He is among the world’s best martial arts instructors and masters. You doubt it? Go and travel the world like I have. See what else is out there. You’ll come back several thousand dollars poorer only to agree with me.

This morning, Master Lee was explaining the finer points of the second HRD hyung to me, demonstrating the proper body mechanics for the reverse punch. I’ve seen plenty of high level practitioners throw a reverse punch, and I myself have thrown thousands of them. But when you see it done properly, as if every cell of the puncher’s body is in perfect harmony with that movement, that punch is no longer just a punch. It’s an expression of transcendence.

The beauty of that transcendence is lost, however, on 99% of the people that walk through the dojang’s doors. The average person, even a so-called “educated consumer”, lacks the perspective or experience to see the value of what’s being given to them so freely for nothing more than the price of enrollment. I see it almost every time I walk into the dojang: “That which comes too easily, you esteem too lightly,” It’s a bloody shame. It expresses itself with every rude comment, every careless action, every half-hearted kick, every defensive response to criticism, and every moment when our ego allows any sort of behavior that is anything other than respectful, diligent, committed, and generous. This is the cold, hard truth of every asset or precious commodity – from money, to relationships – not just martial arts. We get into the habit of taking things for granted, and we do it with the things that we cherish, let alone the things that we cannot comprehend the value of.
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Almost 2 decades ago, when I first came to Los Angeles, I was at Caltech, watching Tsutomu Ohshima teach his Shotokan karate class. As a newcomer, I knelt just inside the door of the gym in the corner, watching the class train and observing the instruction. Master Ohshima noticed me kneeling, and came up to me after maybe 30 minutes and invited me in, asking me to sit more comfortably on the bleachers. When he came up to me, I bowed down, touching my forehead to the ground in the same way that you bow at the beginning of class.
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At the end of class, one of Master Ohshima’s higher ranking brown belt students came up to me and snidely asked why I was brown-nosing “Mr. Ohshima” with all the kneeling and bowing. I shot back a glare that would have cut through a tree and told him that if he had any clue who his teacher was, how his teacher was the prized pupil of the father of modern karate, how his teacher’s skill is legendary in the world of martial arts (even in Japan), he should cry at the number of times he failed to kneel down and show the utmost respect for his sensei. Embarrassed, he skulked off to change out of his uniform and find his pocket protector. In all his years of training, that student never comprehended the value of the moments he had with this great master. If you knew the kind of level of achievement and genius that Do Joo Nim has accomplished, if you knew the kind of persistence and dedication Susuk Kwan Jang Nim has put into training and continuing Do Joo Nim’s legacy, and if you knew how little you appreciate it and respect it, maybe you’d cry too. Thanksgiving is right around the corner. Don’t show your thanks with a Honey baked ham, or some cheap words. Show how much you understand what is being given to you and how much you esteem the Hwarang ethos by pushing yourself in every moment to be stronger, more dedicated, more respectful, and more aware not just in the dojang, but in every moment of your life.

Dr. Mark Cheng

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August 3rd, 2008

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A 15 Year Vision Realized…

August 3rd, 2008

Message to All Students who Participated in this Year’s World Championships:

First I want to say how extremely proud I am of our students from West Coast and all across the country, who came to participate in this year’s World Championships.

The competition was fierce, yet with great sportsmanship.

The stands were full of friends, family and Hwa Rang Do fans.

The entire event went off without a single glitch or problem.

The referees, judges, time keeper, organizers and all the Black Sashes did a superb job running the event… and they still competed in all 5 events!

On top of that, today not a single martial arts organization has done what we accomplished this past Sunday. I don’t know if you may understand the magnitude of what happened this past weekend, but many of our students essentially competed in 3, 4 and even 5 tournaments in a single day!

One martial art having 5 tournaments in a single day in weapon forms, open hand forms, sparring, grappling and sword fighting is unheard of…

Hwa Rang Do is truly the WORLD’S MOST COMPREHENSIVE MARTIAL ART and it would not be possible without the hard work and dedication YOU put into your training and preparation.

Like I’ve said many times before, we are a different breed of martial art and our goals are not simply to teach kicking and punching. Our goals are to impact the world in a positive and powerful way.

As a result, the vision which was realized last week in developing our own competitive venue will continue to expand until the growth of Hwa Rang Do is so massive, we will have people knocking down our dojang doors begging to become a part of our competitions, organization and family.

I know at times, I can be a very tough and hard teacher to have. But EVERYTHING I do is done with purpose and the very best intentions for you as an individual, Hwa Rang Do and our society.

I push you because I want you to fulfill your potential.

I bark because at any given moment I know you can be 100 times better than you think you are.

And I will continue to do so, because as your teacher I love you and want the very best for you.

You are all awesome warriors — hwarang!

And next year will be even better and bigger than ever with the addition of a visiting Italian Team and transforming the sport of Kumdo/Kendo with our own unique brand of weapon fighting the world has yet to witness…

Hwa Rang Do will be first!

HWA RANG DO, HWA RANG DO, HWA RANG DO FOREVER!

Your very proud,

Chief Master Taejoon Lee

Team Sparring: Kick Punch Throw Fighting

July 30th, 2008

Here’s actual footage from last year’s Hwa Rang Do World Championship Tournament, featuring representatives from the Italian Hwa Rang Do branch and West Los Angeles Hwa Rang Do Academy going head to head…

Interview with Chief Master Taejoon Lee – Part II

June 18th, 2008

Thirty years into his teaching career, Susuk Kwanjangnim is working on many fronts to spread the benefits of Hwa Rang Do to the public. This is the second part of our interview with Master Lee, bringing to a close this glimpse into how and why he works. (for part one, see Chief Master Lee Interview Part I)

KCC: From the 30 years of teaching, what are some of your discoveries, experiences, and understandings of being human?

CML: Wow, that’s a loaded question. Let me see how I can best answer that. First off, I am grateful and feel blessed for having the opportunity to have come across so many diverse people of all walks of life, culture, and nations. Literally I have taught thousands if not tens of thousands of students and you can say I heard it all, seen it all, but human beings are very tricky and I am sure I will gain new insights, (smiling) good ones. But then again what are bad insights? I guess all insights are good, depending on how I apply them, and yes I already knew that. I was just checking to see if you’re awake.

There are many that I could mention, which is my inspiration for my next book, but for now just a few thoughts. I have heard over and over again from my students that they wish they started training earlier when they were children and that they wish they finished many things that they started when they were younger. There are several clues to our human nature from this. For one, perseverance is not innate; it is learned or in my case teachable. So, this is one of my most important missions as a teacher is to teach the qualities of perseverance and tenacity to my students.

How is that possible? Well, before one can be tenacious, he/she must have fortitude, endurance; before one can persevere he/she must have strength and courage. One must understand the reasons why people quit things.

And, if you ask a thousand people why they have quit, they will give you a thousand different answers with the most popular answer being, “I don’t know.” For those who have put some thought into it, their answers will range from the most absurd to the most creative elaborations from their infinite imagination, the intellect. However, if you look deeply, there are two fundamental reasons – loss of interest and hardship.

There are many versions of why they lost interest and why it was so difficult and all of them are justifiable and reasonable. Nevertheless, the bottom line is that they have quit.

Most have learned the art of quitting from their early childhood when you (the parent) have enrolled them in piano lessons, but now they want to play the guitar which is actually okay as it is in the same discipline of music. So at least, that’s what we tell ourselves as parents. Then, the child wants to do martial arts, but now he wants to play football and that’s okay because at least they are doing something physical. So at least, that’s what we tell ourselves as parents.

As young children, they seek what is pleasurable and avoid things that are not pleasurable. This is why I might find my 6 year old nephew rubbing himself on the couch and when asked, “Why do you do that?” His answer is simple and in a way profound, “It feels good.” Profound? Because ultimately this is the state which we all seek – that state of purity, innocence, and happiness, often called heaven, nirvana, enlightenement.

But for now, we must grow to maturity and become adults. And being an adult, being mature means that we must learn to do the things that we don’t like to do, things which do not give us pleasure. We may even do them well and sometime very well — like taxes.

So, if we let the child decide, then they will be fickle and rightly so with so many things to do and so eager to do them all.

Then what is the answer?

You can’t just have them do one thing forever or can you? Actually that’s what makes people the best at something – look at Tiger Woods or better yet, me (with a smile). To clarify, it’s not just one thing, but one focus. Well, that’s highly unlikely and you don’t want to limit your child’s experiences. Then, what can you do?

How about setting smaller goals and timelines for example: if they want to play the guitar, then you make them promise that they will try it for one year whether they like it or not and at that time, you’ll re-evaluate whether the child wants to continue or not.

At least this way, they did not quit, but more importantly they don’t feel like a quitter and also learned to keep a promise. Also, they did not get stuck wasting time on something that they don’t like doing and it’s not their forte. This is why the martial arts are so perfect as it breaks down the art’s curriculum into small parts, the belt ranking system, that are more digestible.

Boy this has become a long winded answer, so I’ll try to wrap it up and you’ll just have to wait for my book to know the rest.

No matter how you disguise it, quitting is quitting, and it’s a learned behavior. As a child when they quit something, they don’t feel bad, they feel liberated, happy. It’s later on in their lives that this behavior impacts them negatively and is the cause of low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence, and self-destructive behavior.

Human beings cling to things that are familiar and stay away from things that are unfamiliar whether they are positive or negative has no bearing on their decision. We want more than anything – security. The fear of the unknown is far greater than the impending doom of self-destructive behavior. And, even when we know that what we are doing is not good for us, we will continue as that is what’s familiar. Their lives will continue to spin out of control and not knowing how to stop it or change it, their ego for the sake of self-preservation will convince them that it’s not their fault that their live are so messed up, but it’s everyone and everything else that’s is to blame.

KCC: We can’t change our past, so what are we to do now as adults?

CML: Quit! (laugh). There are so many things I want to share with you, my students, and the world. This is why I am relentless in my efforts to teach, teach, and then teach some more. With the help of some of my students, we will utilize the new technologies to disseminate my teachings and have it more readily available worldwide.

KCC: Okay Master Lee, but what do you want to teach?

CML: Whether you believe in God or not, our lives are in our own hands. And, if there is a God, we must be self-reliant for what kind of god would want a nagging, whining child. Our destiny lies within our own hands and it is up to us to make happen what we want to be like, what kind of life we want to live. Whether the glass half-full or half-empty, what you must remember is that it is the same glass of water and it’s up to the individual to decide.

The goal should be to do the best that we can in all that we do by constantly improving, strengthening, and educating ourselves towards betterment. That should be the goal of our lives, not “lets be a millionaires”. Money is a means to an end, not the end itself and usually it ruins everything of true value, the human spirit. So if you do not enjoy the journey of life and spend money accordingly, then you’ll have amassed a lot of wealth, spend much time and stress protecting it, some will literally bury it underground as they do not trust the banks, then die a rich, bitter, lonely man, only to leave all the wealth that you could not carry into heaven, to your children. Then they won’t be able to understand why people have to work so hard to make money and constantly complain about it and also can’t figure out why they are so miserable.

Earlier, I have defined two fundamental sources for quitting and both are within our control – boredom and difficulties. Grass is not greener on the other side; the grass is greenest where I step.

In order to maintain our interest in others and the things we do, we must first make ourselves interesting by constantly improving in all areas of our lives, reaffirming our purpose each and every day, crush the demon of apathy that lies deep within ourselves, and not live to enter heaven, but make this our heaven.

Then, we must fortify and strengthen all three elements of the self – mind, body and heart, keeping our spirit balanced and strong. With this renewed strength, we can now face any hardship and accept it as a challenge that stands in defiance of our growth, of our goal towards self-betterment.

I am not interested in living a long life; I want to live a full life. This is what I have learned from my life as a Hwarang and this is what I want to share with the world. I thank my teacher, my mentor, my father and most importantly the silence between the words that give everything meaning.

Hwarangdo Forever!

Interview with Chief Master Taejoon Lee – Part I

June 17th, 2008

Sitting astride his warhorse, the thirteen-year-old Hwarang let the weight of command settle across his shoulders. As the eldest son, he knew that not only his, but his family’s, future rested on the decisions he would make from then on. In true fashion of the warrior-poets who unified his land, he never questioned whether he could achieve greatness, or whether he would secure that future. The only question that burned from his gaze was how.

Taejoon LeeThirty years later, Taejoon Lee finds himself answering the question he posed to himself so long ago. With hundreds of rang do (students) under his direct tutelage, and thousands more internationally following the martial way, Susuk Kwanjangnim is poised to achieve a monumental feat.

The Kwan Chang Chronicles sat with Chief Master Lee to discuss his achievement, and get his reflections from thirty years of teaching Hwa Rang Do in the United States, and what he envisions for the coming years.

KCC: Susuk Kwanjangnim, what is the most vital aspect of your teaching? What one thing do you hope students take away from their training?

ML: When you look back into the history of the Hwarang and whom they were, their martial training was not just to develop skills for combat, they were life skills as well. Everything they did, be it raise a family, the arts, teach, heal, etc. was guided and congruent with how they lived as warriors.

In battle, there are no excuses. Failure was equivalent to dying. Now even though in our modern everyday lives, we normally don’t pay that high of a price for our failures, as modern warriors we need to be guided by that same philosophy. I always tell my students, “don’t be the exception, be exceptional”.

Now that being said, often in life we do fail and make mistakes. Once a mistake has occurred, there’s nothing you can do to change it – it’s in the past. But as warriors if we have faltered and still have the opportunity to live on, we must view that failure as an opportunity to learn and grow and continue moving forward with our new found wisdom.

Most people view failure or success as the only two possible outcomes for a venture. But there are many opportunities for personal growth as you work toward achieving your objective. Only focusing on the outcome can be dangerous, because it opens you up to temptation – to cheating your way to get to the end, cutting corners or even just becoming complacent.

But as warriors, the journey and how we conduct ourselves and what we gain during that journey is just as important. Every great warrior, every great leader shares an inherent dissatisfaction with status quo and a desire to challenge themselves, to become better people in the process of achieving one’s goals. As a result, the journey becomes even more important than arriving at your destination.

From international martial arts exhibitions and seminars, to private instruction where he teaches one-to-one, Master Lee has taught thousands of people Hwa Rang Do’s martial way. We asked him, then, what has the largest obstacle been to imparting the Hwarang philosophy to the public at large.

ML: In our western society, we have become conditioned and told that it is acceptable to avoid responsibility for ourselves. It’s even engrained in our legal system, where they make a distinction between premeditated murder and just murder… “crimes of passion” versus just crime. This conditions us to believe that there are times when we can avoid taking full responsibility for our own actions. This is ridiculous. Everything we do and don’t do, is our responsibility regardless of the circumstance!

This is my biggest challenge, but it is also my responsibility as a teacher to help everyone who walks into my dojang understand this. From the little tiger who forgets his sparring gear to the adult students not taking responsibility for their test material, everyone is accountable for their own actions. If a little tiger comes to the dojang without the necessary equipment, it’s not the parent’s responsibility, it’s the little tiger’s responsibility and he/she is the one who will be disciplined.

The encouraging part about my job is that as students progress to the higher levels of Tae Soo Do and into Hwa Rang Do, most do become more responsible and self-critical. It’s a great joy of mine to watch them mature and progress.

However, I also rarely acknowledge my students for these achievements, because I want them to improve for themselves, and not for the sake of pleasing me. It is very difficult for me to bottle up this silent pride for my students. There is nothing more I want to do than to hug them and tell them “great job”. But, I am reluctant to do this because I want them to be proud of themselves, while still never being satisfied and remain hungry for more.

KCC: How do you translate that concept to the dojang?

ML: Well, my life’s journey as a teacher has taught me quite a bit as you can imagine. Early on, I focused quite a bit on techniques, application and execution of Hwa Rang Do inside the dojang. While obviously, there is no one more strict on the proper execution of techniques than I, instilling my students with the desire to better themselves has taken precedent over anything else. I want my students to be able to be self-critical and stand up to the challenges in their lives, no matter the circumstance..

Now so you don’t’ misunderstand me, I have excellent students. They are the best! However, we must all strive to improve ourselves, our lives, our environment and those around us… until we reach our full potential.

That is what it means to be a Hwarang – a warrior.

As Hwarang, we don’t seek to improve to please others or win a prize or medal. Achieving one’s human potential means achieving and doing as much as you possibly can during your lifetime, with your God given strengths and overcoming any weaknesses or shortcomings.

If you are three feet tall, be the best three footer you can be. Don’t worry about those taller than you. Focus on being the best, period.

KCC: Besides teaching, how are you striving to reach your full potential?

ML: Fifty knuckle push-ups! (laughing) Just kidding. Over the past 15 years, I’ve been working to fulfill a dream of mine. It is to improve upon our Kumdo (the Korean version of Japanse Kendo) techniques. I have developed a new set of techniques to be added to the traditional mori, hori and son strikes. When I started, I did not know how I would do this, but I knew it was a goal worth striving for.

Constantly challenging myself with new dreams and goals is how I reach for my full potential. As long as I have new dreams, goals and ideas, my job is not done yet.

KCC: What were the obstacles in fulfilling your dream?

ML: This is changing one hundred years of tradition! I had the idea, but I couldn’t just introduce the concept. I had to set the foundation – I had to create the armor, and create the Hwarang Kum Sur (Hwa Rang Do sword techniques). This is the legacy that has been handed to me, which I must honor and respect by very carefully thinking it through.

This isn’t capricious, this is methodical. I had to be able to envision this change fifteen years out, to work on it, develop the techniques and train students in the new techniques.

KCC: So as you encourage and challenge your students . . .

ML: I continue to challenge myself. It is liberating to have achieved this, but I strove because the journey was important. And each of us should continue to do this in our lives. We train to afford ourselves very real challenges, to push ourselves and to grow. This is more than a formula, more than a set of numbers to add up and say “Ah! I have the answer!” No, this is not it. It is defining perfection, establishing goals, and then working until you’ve achieved them. No one is going to reach perfection. It is an impossibility. But in striving for perfection, in attempting to reach the infinite possibilities in all of us, THAT is where we experience growth!

I look at the Hwarang way of life, the philosophy of growth and achievement, and I want to share it with as many people as possible. Where else in our modern society does someone experience the challenges necessary to grow on a regular basis? Think about it. The characteristics you need to succeed in training – discipline, perseverance, awareness, balance – are the same characteristics you need to succeed in life.

Do Joo Nim once told me a story: A man wanted to climb a mountain, wanted to achieve something in his life. So he set out up the mountain. He worked and sweated, strained and struggled, but finally, he stood on the peak. He achieved it. The wind was cool, chilling him. The sun shone bright, and the colors of the mountain were bright and vivid. Slowly, he turned all the way around, looking out across the vast range. Do you know what he saw? More peaks.

This is life. This is our philosophy. This is our way. Once you have achieved something, earned it, worked at it, there are other peaks to climb. But you do so with the confidence that comes from having reached the first peak. And the converse is, those who never try to climb the mountain, who never reach the first peak, don’t know what is possible, don’t know about the other peaks, because they haven’t conquered themselves, conquered their fears and attempted anything at all. This is the Hwarang way. Once you know that you can achieve in here, once you see that discipline and practice, awareness and balance, that perseverance allow you to achieve, then what is there you cannot achieve in life?

KCC: Is this something you believe people can achieve by themselves?

ML: No. No one can do it alone. Everyone is in need of ongoing mentorship, including myself. I will be disciplining a student for some transgression, challenging them to help them learn and grow, and days later, Do Joo Nim, my teacher, would be disciplining me for the exact same thing! This just shows that we all need a teacher, a mentor, someone to help us become honest with ourselves and be self-critical. For most of us, being self-critical is very difficult, because most human beings have a very high opinion of themselves, and we often need someone to step in and point out where we are lacking integrity. That is why beyond teaching and training, I am also going to begin offering Life Coaching.

KCC: For students?

ML: For students. For non-students. For everyone. As I said before, the didn’t just train for combat, their martial training served as a compass for their lives. Through live coaching, Hwa Rang Do will be able to reach a portion of humanity, which would otherwise not benefit from our training as life’s warriors.

This may seem like a lofty goal, but I’ve yet to find anything else, which offers more of an opportunity for personal growth and achieving one’s potential, than Hwa Rang Do. Life coaching is yet another peak to climb, with many more to follow.

Since 30 years cannot be summarized into a few mere paragraphs, our interview with Chief Master Lee will be continued in the next issue of the Kwan Chang Chronicles – West Coast Hwa Rang Do Newsletter.

Ground Fighting & Submission Demo – Taejoon Lee

May 24th, 2008

During Hwa Rang Do’s® Korea Trip in 2004, Chief Master Lee woos and wows the crowd with a myriad of different grappling techniques. These include wrist locks, figure-4s, chokes, neck cranks, armbars, shoulder cranks, grapevines, takedowns, and much more…

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Walking with Death – The Warrior’s Path

May 19th, 2008

by Chief Master Taejoon Lee

“I guess it comes down to a simple choice really – get busy living or get busy dying.”
The Shawshank Redemption

Kumdo Class
Chief Master Taejoon Lee faces off against Jokyo Simon Lee

I had a student come to me and ask for a private lesson to show him how to execute a jump spin kick. Of course I feel that it’s long overdue and he should have asked me many months ago when he was first introduced to it as a Tae Soo Do (TSD) Brown Belt. Nearing his TSD Black Belt graduation where he must complete the final part of his Black Belt Testing Requirements by successfully breaking five boards with kick combinations, finishing with a jump spin/low spin
kick break, he felt the need to get some extra help to ensure his success.

It’s a good thing he was proactive in trying to control the future outcome by increasing his preparation, but what really motivated him? We’ll come back to this. As we continued his private session, he was having a terrible time fixing his old habits. Finally I blurted, “What are you afraid of, what?!”

He answered, “I am afraid of falling.”

I replied, “You have been here almost three years, learned how to fall properly, are standing on two inch thick mats, and yet you are still afraid of falling? Well, that’s it then. You must become unafraid and accept the worst outcome before you can move forward or perish (not in so many words).”

Human beings are motivated strongly by fears; mainly fear of injury, pain, hardship, embarrassment, and of the unknown. We try to balance our fears by creating comfort zones of predictable patterns to limit our uncertainty, deluding ourselves to think that we have some grasp on our lives. As we are taught in Hwa Rang Do to never retreat in the face of the enemy, we must first clearly define and understand this enemy of ours – fear. Let’s think for a moment what that is. Fear is anticipation of negative results from a particular event, action, or set of conditions that has been learned from past similar events.

The important thing to understand is that fear is not real. It is imaginary. It did not happen, and might never happen; it’s only our imagination, our mind which creates images with emotional and psychological attachments that become so real that we create our lives, our responses, and our choices based on fear – our imagination.

There are two types of fear discussed here: let’s describe them as good fear and bad fear. Good fear causes motivation for action and bad fear creates reasons for inaction. Good fear prompts proactive behavior while bad fear immobilizes our minds, causing either no response or complete abandonment – quitting. The good fear prompted the student to take action to prevent the negative result that he was anticipating with planning and preparation by deciding to take a private lesson. The bad fear prevented him from creating the necessary changes for betterment and advancing. He took refuge (as
many do) in the comfort of what’s most familiar. Whether that’s good or bad, negative or positive, self destructive or self enriching has no bearing on the decision. Just as a hermit crab hides in their shell, so do we hide in what’s most familiar.

Jump Back KickThe student was not willing to give up what’s familiar and clung to it like a safety blanket (however old, filthy, or smelly it may be), fixating only on the potential negative result rather than focusing on the possibility for growth and change for the better.

Once I helped the student think through the worst that can happen to him – a broken leg, perhaps, maybe even death (highly unlikely but let’s give our imagination the benefit of the doubt) the student was willing to move into unknown territory. Where before he kept doing the same wrong movement, once he accepted the worst-case scenario, he began to try different ways. Finally after almost an hour of what was to be a thirty-minute session, he made some progress. However, something very interesting occurred. He made some advancement, but quickly regressed to his old ways when he felt he was losing control, uncomfortable with the new body positioning. I think he even fell once. Well, that confirmed it.

His fears were right – he did fall. Fear is not logical, it’s not just mental or emotional, it’s all consuming, and it’s powerful. Fear cannot be underestimated, and the demon that has taken a lifetime to take root and grow cannot be defeated in a single brief encounter.

Furthermore, fear cannot be eliminated and should not be. Everything serves a purpose and so does fear. However, like all things, we must learn to control it, using it as fuel for action and exercising caution in making decisions. Being able to do this requires strength, which in turn increases our selfconfidence, and enhances our self-image. These are all necessary weapons when facing the demon of fear.

Primarily, we need the strength to accept the worst-case scenario. If one cannot, then they must quit their task and hide from fear, as many people try to hide from death. The problem is that death will come and we have absolutely no control over when or how. The only thing we have control over is life. Hiding is only a temporary solution. Also, have you noticed that when we quit things, or give up on dreams, that in our minds it’s perfectly justified and we have all the right reasons to do so? Of course we do! How could we live with ourselves if it weren’t the case? This is how our mind works for self-preservation.

Letting go of these justifications and delusions by being true and honest to oneself is the first step in battling our fears.

As warriors then, by definition, we must train ourselves to be unafraid of confrontation and engage our enemy. We must accept and embrace death as a guest, a friend that walks next to you with life on the other side. Only by embracing death, by truly understanding it, can we begin to appreciate and respect life. Not to abuse our life and live recklessly, which would be disrespecting death, but by honoring life so that our deaths become more meaningful.

This is the beauty and the power of Hwa Rang Do. We exercise dealing with fear on a daily basis as we take on physical, mental, and emotional challenges set by the art, fellow students, and me in a controlled safe environment. Hence, realizing our limitations, weaknesses, and the truth about ourselves, we can practice taming our personal demons and making them our friends that we may call upon for help – sources of motivation.

As the protagonist, Andy, in the acclaimed film, “The Shawshank Redemption,” was forced to make a decision when all hope was lost, so do we – either to get busy living or get busy dying. After losing all hope, when facts were revealed that could prove Andy’s innocence were brutally suppressed by the prison warden, Andy was forced to contemplate the meaning of life. Hopefully, we do not need to be in such extreme conditions to realize that the choice is ours – to live or to die, to be living or to be dying. Death is inevitable and tomorrow may never come.

To live life by allowing fear to force our hopes and dreams into hiding, never realizing our full potential, is slavery epitomized. We must look deep within and bring to the surface our innermost fears, confronting them face to face as we do our opponents, sparring until imminent victory. The fear you suppress most, that lurks in the dark crevices of your mind, is what enslaves you and it’s that enemy that we must overcome in order to truly live life with freedom.

I hope to continue gettin’ busy living with all of you for many more years to come.

With gratitude to death in making our lives more fulfilling,

Taejoon Lee
Susuk Kwanjangnim